Are you looking to become a lovely person? Someone who is happy and well-liked? Then look no further, because we have the perfect guide for you!
1.Be yourself
Be genuine, honest, and authentic in everything you do – people can see through phoniness and it’s not a trait that is generally liked. Fakeness is old-fashioned. We all don’t like those wannabes.
2.See the best in people and be understanding
Everyone has their own story and we all make mistakes – focus on the good in people and try to forgive their flaws. If people entrust you with their insecurities, make sure you make them see things differently. Inspire and challenge.
3.Be positive and optimistic
Positivity is infectious and lovely people are always happy and pleasant to be around. Be the candle that sets alight a dark room. It doesn’t make your candle burn any dimmer.
4.Be kind and compassionate
Showing compassion for others – whether it’s a friend in need or a stranger – is a lovely trait that makes people want to be around you. Kindness is an expression of our inner traits.
5.Always be respectful
Respect yourself and respect others – it’s a simple rule but one that lovely people always follow. Respect is earned. In a society bent on demanding respect in the name of liberty, there is an awful lot that needs doing. Why demand respect when you least offer it?
6.Decency is a necessity
Are you a decent person? Take a moment to think about it. Decency is very lacking amongst most of us. The word “decent” has become an insult. We as lovely people should take it back and use it to describe how we try to live our lives.
Being decent is about being honest with yourself first and foremost. Are you happy with who you are? What kind of person do you want to be? These are tough questions that lovely people ask themselves regularly.
A lovely person always strives to be the best they can be. They are never satisfied with mediocrity and are always looking to improve themselves – whether it’s professionally, personally, or spiritually.
Lovely people are also respectful of others. They understand that everyone is different and has their own opinions and beliefs. A lovely person is never judgmental and always tries to see things from another person’s perspective.
Finally, lovely people are always there for their loved ones. They are reliable, supportive, and always there when you need them. They make the world a better place simply by being in it. Aim to leave a mark, a positive mark, for the days you’re fortunate to grace this earth.
Find your mark
I have this friend who loves social media. Okay, we are on a different bandwidth since I tell her that she’s addicted. She disagrees. It’s a hobby. That notwithstanding, she has an interesting policy. All her tweets reflect her personality. She wants to tweet her way in this life. So, rather than spread the usual hate, clout-chasing, and fake ness common on most social media platforms, she shares life lessons. That’s a decent way to live. Off-topic, materialism isn’t decency but wealth can be used to enhance decent values.
This is a holistic form of decency.
So there you have it, our guide on how to become a lovely person. Just remember to be yourself, be positive, and always show compassion and respect and you’ll be well on a path to loveliness.
Accommodate different opinions
Respect is something that lovely people always show, regardless of whether they agree with the person or not. In fact, lovely people are often able to have heated debates and discussions without resorting to name-calling or personal attacks – something that is all too common these days.
One of the main reasons why lovely people are so good at respecting others is because they are always looking to learn and grow. They understand that everyone has different opinions and experiences, and they are always open to hearing new perspectives.
Furthermore, lovely people also know how to compromise. They are willing to meet halfway and accommodate different opinions – even if it means changing their own views. After all, lovely people understand that no one is ever 100% right all the time.
So the next time you find yourself in a discussion with someone, try to remember these tips on how to be lovely. Show respect, stay open-minded, and always be willing to compromise. You might just find that you have more in common with the other person than you thought. lovely people always make the world a better place. So be one of them!
Be lovely
Finally, always try to be lovely! By making an effort to be the best version of yourself, you’ll find that people are naturally drawn to you and lovely becomes second nature.
Be an oasis in a desert of radical and intolerant people currently on the rise both in and beyond America. The world years for some lovely people. It doesn’t require much. Just a willingness to be better!
