Whenever I think about parenting, the overriding thought is its nobility. How many are parents? Take a moment and consider the many things you’ve undertaken in this life, and how many compare to parenting. Chances are; none of these things come close to the feeling of becoming a parent. That’s the biggest honor!
Parenting demands the best of us. A social media user caught my attention when he narrated how their partner walked away one day. If my memory serves me right, the partner called to say she needed to go grocery shopping. The social media user tells how he came from this job to babysit and waited. Well, as dusk arrived and the message hit home what had just happened; he cried. The baby stretched its hands and said “Don’t cry, daddy. I got you.” That was more a couple of years ago. The family is making strides. The social media user suggested one key thing; some people aren’t cut out for parenting. It sounds harsh and subjective but I somehow agree with the remark.
Parenting is not for the simple-hearted
With the everyday debate on abortion and the sexual legal age among other controversial social topics ongoing, the importance of parenting should never be underestimated. It’s an everyday job. From getting up in the morning to ensure your child is bathed, dressed, and well-fed to making sure they do their homework and get a good night’s sleep. It can be exhausting!
The beauty of parenting is that it gives you a sense of purpose. A reason to wake up every morning and be grateful for what you have. However, I will not make the mistake of sugar-coating the extremes and strains of parenting. A child bestows a never-ending responsibility on the parents, but there are many ways too for happy parenting. You’ve heard horrible stories of parents killing innocent kids. If unsure about your suitability to become a parent; KEEP OFF! I say this with the sincerest of intentions. Children don’t have to suffer because of their parents’ shortcomings.
Tips to becoming a happy parent
Parenting can bring a lot of joy and happiness into your life. It can also be a lot of work, but it is worth it. Here are some tips on how to be a happy parent:
1.Make sure you spend time with your children every day
This doesn’t mean you have to be in their lives 24/7, but you should make time for them every day. Whether it’s reading a book together before bedtime or going for a walk in the park, quality time with your children is important. In short, be there.
2.Be patient with your children
They will make mistakes and they will have bad days, just like you do. Try not to get too frustrated with them and remember that they are learning.
3.Encourage your children to express their feelings
Let them know it’s okay to feel sad, angry, or scared sometimes. Help them find healthy ways to express their emotions.
4.Teach your children how to resolve conflicts
Show them how to compromise and how to listen to others’ points of view. This will help them in their relationships with friends, family, and future partners.
5.Model the behaviour you want to see in your children
If you want them to be kind, patient, and respectful, make sure you are those things yourself. They are watching you and they will learn from your example. A parent is the most influential teacher in a child’s life. Model your children from a point of wisdom rather than fear. Make the lessons worthwhile.
6.Don’t forget to take care of yourself
Parenting can be stressful, so make sure you have a support system in place. Whether it’s your partner, friends, or family, lean on them when you need to. And make time for yourself too. parenting is important, but so is your own happiness.
7.Trust yourself
Modern times are confusing. We have access to tons of information from tons of experts. It comes a time when one can easily develop self-doubt. You know your child best. You are the only one who can make the decisions that are right for them. Parenting is not easy, but it is worth it. It is an amazing experience that will teach you more about yourself than you ever thought possible. And in the end, that is what happiness is all about.
Happier Kids = Happier Adults
Scientific research indicates parenting can have a lasting effect on children. How you parent your children can affect their happiness as adults. So, if you want your children to be happy adults, focus on making them happy kids.
Additionally, on average, happy people tend to be more successful compared to unhappy people both at work and in love. Therefore, when molding future generations, be cheerful at it. Enjoy every second spent with your daughter or son, and immerse yourself fully.
Becoming a parent is a divine privilege!
